Writing an obituary guide
A simple structure for a meaningful obituary draft.
A strong obituary balances facts with personality
Most obituary drafts become easier once you stop trying to write a perfect life summary. Start with the facts that orient readers, then add the qualities, relationships, and moments that tell people who this person was.
You do not need to include everything. A short obituary that sounds like the person is usually more meaningful than a longer one that reads like a résumé or a formal template.
Write a first version that can be edited later
Draft the structure first: key facts, a few defining details, and service information if it is ready. If those details are still in motion, it is fine to say that more information will follow.
Families often find it easier when one person writes the first version and others react to it. Editing something imperfect is much less exhausting than trying to compose the final version from a blank page together.
Draft template: Obituary starter
[Name], [age], passed away on [date]. [Name] was known for [values/qualities]. A [service type] will be held on [date/time/location]. In lieu of flowers, [optional support request].
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